Monday, September 29, 2008

Prayers...

My heart is sad this morning for a dear couple who were friends of mine at Harding, Jordan and Kari Clark. Their little boy Drew passed away yesterday at just 15 months after a four and a half month battle with neurological problems. He had been having a constant seizure for months and no medication could control it. They still don't have a definitive diagnosis and it might be awhile before they find out exactly the cause. Their faith through this ordeal has been so amazing to me. Kari's blog entry yesterday could be part of Hebrews 11. She and Jordan want to continue to encourage others through their heartache and make sure God is glorified through the life of Drew. What warriors for the Lord they are! I have their blog marked in my favorites under "The Clark Family" if you would like to read their story. Please pray for them as they deal with what I know will be hard weeks, months, and years ahead.

I got an e-mail last week that another friend of mine from Harding, Mark Trainer and his wife Shauna are going through a similar situation. Their year old daughter Hailey has been diagnosed with brain cancer and starts chemo this week. Statically her prognosis is not good, but they too have an amazing faith and know God can move mountains. Please pray for healing for Hailey and strength, comfort, and peace for Mark and Shauna. Her chemo will last about 9 months. They also have three other older children as well and I know will feel pulled in so many directions. Their website is http://www.caringbridge.org/visit/haileyanntrainer

I know we serve a BIG God and I just pray this morning for him to take Jordan and Kari in His arms and comfort them as only He can. I also pray for complete healing for little Hailey.

Saturday, September 27, 2008

The 2 week Roadtrip


Here are some things I learned and realized during our two week hurricane holiday:

1. We are so blessed to have a wonderful extended family. In the course of two weeks we managed to stay with all six parents of ours and to see three of our brothers, three sister-in-laws, one nephew, one niece, two aunts, two uncles, one set of grandparents, and four cousins. No matter what house we were at, we felt at home and at ease. I don't think everyone can say they appreciate and LIKE their in-laws as much as Ty and I do.

2. God's timing is the best. I had been worried I wouldn't get to go home to visit my parents this fall until Thanksgiving and was pretty homesick for Oklahoma. Little did I know that we would get to stay for over a week in Yukon since our power was out for an extended time period. It was so refreshing to be back in my hometown where it literally takes 5 minutes to go anywhere in town. My mom was in a car wreck the day before we got there but is doing great. Her car was totalled, but she just has some muscular pain. I was so glad to actually see her the next day after it happened and make sure she was OK in person.

3. I love reunions with old friends! I got to see two of my best friends, Amber and JoDee while I was in town. Also, I saw my friend Priya for the first time since we graduated from high school (over 13 years ago!). We met at the park and let our kids play together and get to know one another.

4. Jake is definitely every bit of his 19 months. My sweet little boy was not so sweet the whole trip. I know it was so difficult for him to be out of his routine for so long, but he threw his share of tantrums on our trip. One evening he didn't want to share with Hendrix and shoved him down (keep in mind Hendrix is a good foot taller than Jake). Then, the same evening, he got mad at the dog, Penny Lane, and kicked her out of his way. I put him in "time out"--which means he had to sit in my lap, kicking and screaming while I tried to reason with him. I'm realizing that although this age is so much fun, its also pretty difficult because there are still communication breakdowns and though I know Jake understands what I'm saying, I can't exactly reason with him yet. Although he had several less than stellar moments, he still entertained his grandparents quite well. He's developed a new laugh and laughs as loud as he possibly can until he has everyone's attention. He is one funny kid who loves to make others smile. I just realized I also need to work on the best ways to discipline this funny kid of mine!

5. I love being back home as well. Our power came back on Thursday evening just in time for us to watch our favorite show "The Office" (which by the way was WONDERFUL since Jim proposed to Pam--so romantic!). It was very nice to sleep in our own bed again and for it just to be the three (or four) of us. Jake also slept well in his crib again. We are working on cleaning our yard and house...

And now some pictures from our trip...(Somehow I didn't take any pictures in Marshall or Conroe...I still love that part of our family too! I just tend to be forgetful in always taking pictures.)

Jake and Hendrix playing at the park together and feeding the ducks.


One night at Ryan and Crystina's house Jake decided to wear one of Hendrix's shoes. Hendrix put on the other and for a good two hours they shared the pair of shoes.


Here are Finn (my friend Amber's son), Hendrix, and Jake at Braum's. I love this picture of the boys!

Georgia, Jake, Philip, and Marissa at the park while JoDee, Priya, and I had our "reunion." Its hard to believe we all have kids and are grown up!

Jake and his sweet cousin London who was born just 5 days after him.

Jake's many looks...Someday he will be very mad at me for this picture, but he loved wearing my mom's high heels around the house. He even could climb this step in them. To make Ty feel better, we gave him these boots to wear too (thanks to Hendrix). He also really loved the boots which he will wear with his PJs or shorts or just a diaper...

On the way home we stopped at Steak-n-Shake for lunch. I miss this place from my Harding days and it turns out Ty absolutely loves their shakes. I made Jake wear this hat for a picture (he wasn't happy) and got a picture with him under my favorite sign. Good ol' Steak-n-Shake!

Monday, September 22, 2008

yIKEs!

I survived my first hurricane! We've had quite the experience the past week or so, but we're so blessed to have stayed safe during the storm and not to have any damage to our house. When Rita came we evacuated to Marshall, and a normally 4 hour trip took 18 hours so this time we thought we'd stay to weather out the storm. The difference was Rita didn't actually hit our area too hard, and Ike came straight down I-45 and right through Spring. Thursday, I went to Wal-mart and stood in really long lines for water and dry foods and we started getting our house ready. We cleaned out the closet under our staircase to stay in during the storm, and I made us a pallet to sleep in for our "slumber party." Friday, we watched the news all day and watched the water start to flood Galveston. I grew up around tornadoes in Oklahoma, but a big difference between the two is that with tornados they come quickly and then leave. With hurricanes, you watch them coming for days and the anticipation is crazy. It was so heartbreaking to watch all of the people staying in Galveston and knowing they would be in grave danger in just hours.

Friday evening we blew up our air mattress and set it up in the dining room downstairs and put together Jake's pack and play. We had decided to start the evening sleeping downstairs (all of our bedrooms are upstairs) and then when the wind started, we would move to the closet. Here's a picture I took of the sky about 8:30 Friday evening. It was a very pretty pink color before the winds started.

Around 2:00 a.m., the winds really started blowing and branches started hitting the window so we moved into the closet. Luckily, Jake stayed asleep for much of the time. Our electricity went out between 2:00 and 3:00 so we switched to my little battery powered radio. It was the radio I used when getting ready in high school! My dad brought me a box of my stuff from home about a year ago, and I found the radio in the box. It definitely came in handy. The local news channel broadcast over the radio so we listened as the storm hit Galveston and moved through downtown Houston. At that point we hadn't seen the worst of the storm just the beginning winds. Ty and I tried to sleep, but the howling of the winds and crackling of limbs kept us awake. We stayed in the closet until around 8:00 or 9:00 the next morning when the winds finally began to die down. The picture below is Jake in the closet before the storm...he thought it was a fun hiding place!After the storm it still rained all day, but Ty went out to assess our damage. We were so blessed! All four of our fences held, and we didn't have any big trees come down or do damage to our roof. Our house is surrounded by tall pine trees so we didn't know what to expect. All of the neighbors around us had damage so Ty helped some of them move trees off roofs and clean trees off the street. In our backyard we just lost the banana trees and some other small trees. You can see the debris everywhere. Here is a house down the street from us who lost a fairly large tree. This is on FM 2920, the main road by our house.
This is the house next door. We cleaned all day Saturday and had peanut butter and jelly sandwiches for lunch and dinner.I let Jake run around in his diaper since it was so hot. He had so much fun in our dark house! Saturday night we went to sleep as soon as the sun went down and slept with the windows up. We had a slow, stead rain all night long and I slept so well! I think this fall we'll have our windows up much more often. The fresh air is refreshing! Sunday morning we woke up and packed and drove to Ty's dad's house in Marshall, TX. We knew we wouldn't have power for awhile and were already tired of peanut butter and jelly! Here's the line of cars getting gas in Lufkin on the way there. Ironically, Marshall had lost power too, but Larry had a generator and cooked out on his gas grill. It was so nice Sunday nice to have his famous brisket for dinner! Monday we drove over to Louisiana to see Ty's cousin Kip who was on leave from Iraq as well as his aunt and uncle and grandparents. We also got to see Ty's two brothers and their families, a little family reunion of sorts. Tuesday Ty looked online and the Centerpoint website said our neighboorhood had power so we thought about heading home. Ty talked to some co-workers who said there was still limited gas and food in Houston so we decided to come over Oklahoma for a few days and then head home. On the way here Ty talked to our neighbor who said although most of our neighborhood had power, our street did not. That was last Tuesday. Almost a week later, we still don't have power and we're still in Oklahoma. Ty's been able to work from here on his laptop which is a big blessing.
Right now the electric company is saying we will not get power until after Thursday. Our plan is to head home Wednesday regardless so Ty can get back to the office. I think Jake and I will stay at Ty's mom's house in Conroe because their power is back, and Ty will stay with our friends Robert and Lauren downtown so he can commute to work easily.

Whew...so that's our hurricane Ike story. It was actually fairly uneventful minus the week and two days now we've been electricity free. We are a blessed family though and we're thankful for all of our family who has housed us this past week. All of the grandparents love Ike, it just meant they could see Jake more :)
I have more pictures from our road trip I will post tomorrow. We are safe and sound and doing well!

Monday, September 08, 2008

Fun with Poppy and Gigi

We were blessed this weekend with a visit from my parents. I hadn't seen them since May so we were so glad to see them, and I know they were more than ready to see Jake. Jake shined all weekend and learned some new tricks to impress his Oklahoma grandparents. My mom taught him to give her "knuckles" instead of "five," and Jake thought that was so cool. He also learned how to climb up in the kitchen chairs by himself and then even on up to the table. He is such a little climber. Last weekend he even climbed out of his crib for the first time...I think we're in trouble! He started using a few more words as well this weekend. He is usually very content just to sign whatever he wants, and we've been working so hard to get him to use his words as well. He said several different words for my mom including "Bible" which she thought was the best. He also said "Gigi" and "Papa." Originally, my mom was supposed to be Grammy, but my nephew Hendrix instead on naming her Gigi and the name has stuck.
Friday night we went to eat at Rockfish and then went over to show my parents the new fountains. I hadn't brought Jake his swimsuit so I just let him play in his clothes not thinking he'd really get in the water that much...I obviously was wrong! He got soaked but a had an absolute blast!

Saturday we all watched the OU football game together. They had brought Jake an OU jersey which I know brought the Sooners good luck because they played so well :) Jake learned to do the touchdown sign and did that all afternoon.

Here is a picture of Jake last year watching his first OU football game and then here he is this year...How he has grown! Last year we were so worried about him not gaining weight and now he could pass for a little fullback for the Sooners :)




My mom got my dad an I-pod last year for his birthday and he loves it...He wanted to share the fun with Jake who thought he was so grown up walking around with it and wearing his Poppy's headphones.

Sunday we went to church and then Al and Jonesa came over for lunch so Jake had four grandparents to watch him perform. We got out my keyboard (which I have always had the best intentions of learning to play) and let Jake play. He was hilarious...he would turn his head back and forth like Stevie Wonder and then adjust all of the settings to play all of the synthesizer noises. Every 30 seconds he would stop and have us applaud and then he'd start again. Maybe he'll take after his Grandma Jonesa and Aunt Destin and be a bit musical :)

We had a wonderful weekend...family is a blessing!